authenticity-Stranger Things edition
Spoilers for the fourth season of Stranger Things!
This was written before the second volume of Season 4.
Eddie Munson is a national treasure.
Even when compared to other characters like Dustin or Mike, he outshines them all because he’s weird and accepts it. He doesn’t hide or feel ashamed of his interests or personality. He announces it for the world to see and judge him for it (and boy, do they judge him for it!), and he doesn’t care. (Or more accurately, he doesn’t care for the opinions of those who judge him because he doesn’t fit society’s rules.)
That may not sound like much in our society considering the sheer number of articles and pictures shared on social media encouraging everyone to “just be yourself.” But what makes Eddie’s personality so heartwarming is his ability to accept and be himself in an age before social media and the internet.
Typically, the internet–specifically social media–is often discussed in a negative light due to its ability to create illusions that are impossible to obtain in reality. But the internet also has the ability to connect people and help them build communities of like-minded individuals, which can simulate a sense of belongingand act as a buffer against social isolation. Like knitting and essential oils? Find a group on facebook. Have a favorite content creator on Youtube? Join their stantwt (stan twitter). Love a particular game or show? Jump on discord or reddit.
The internet grants one anonymity behind a username where it’s easier to be yourself or someone else.
But what happens when you log off?
Can you recognize yourself between your online persona and the person you see in the mirror?
Offline authenticity is terrifying, but it’s a boost for your mental health. It’s also an indicator of psychological well-being.
Eddie didn’t just stay within the Hellfire Club. He befriendedthose outside of circle and demonstrated that he was willing to connect with anyone who didn’t conform to societal standards and chose to be themselves. Authentic living also means accepting every part of yourself, even the parts you aren’t proud of. Eddie doesn’t deny that he’s a coward (which is more than understandable considering his trauma), but tries his best to be supportive of others, who in turn support him in processing his trauma.
Research demonstrates that acceptance is key to authentic living. It’s difficult finding people who will accept you unconditionally, but it’s harder to accept yourself.
Consider this: what would it look like for you to accept yourself and how would your life change in response to it?
—Jasmine
Image source: Netflix